Hi there- To the adorable/good-looking/helpful flight attendant that I gave my napkin to upon leaving the plane, yes- I'm dead serious. It was not trash I was giving you, but instead an invitation to grab a drink sometime and my #. I have this guttural feeling though that you thought it was trash and crumpled it up? but in the event you read it and/or are reading this, let me know :) P.S. Flight from HNL > SFO